Linda Darlene Wilder the daughter of Ruby Mae (Manus) Stacey was born September 15, 1958 in Tahlequah, Oklahoma and departed this life on December 31, 2017 in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 59 years, 3 months and 16 days.
Darlene loved life. She loved her family and her cat Pogo. She enjoyed visiting with friends and family. She loved the Lord and she loved her church family at Cedar Tree Baptist. She spent a lot of time reading her Bible and she loved singing at church. She enjoyed her role as a homemaker and she enjoyed sewing and cooking. Darlene touched many lives and wil be dearly missed by all who knew and loved her.
She was preceded in death by her parents, and brother David Lee Manus.
She is survived by a loving family which includes her husband Billy Ray Wilder of the home; daughter Crystal Wilder-Galvan and husband Joey of Vian, OK; son Gary Wayne Wilder of Tahlequah, OK; stepson Alex (Bear) Wacoche of Hulbert, OK; brothers Carl Stacey and wife Melanie of Tahlequah, OK; Shelby Stacey and wife Kimberly of Tahlequah, OK; and 8 grandchildren and 1 great grandchild. Several nieces, nephews, friends and other relatives, also survive her.
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with the family.
Dean & Veralyn BridgesFort Worth, TX
She was a very sweet and funny lady. Thoughts and prayers for all. Sorry for your loss.
Rhonda ClarkTahlequah, OK
My heart breaks for you during this time of sadness. I only met your mommy once and it was a life lasting impression of her sweetness. May God wrap His loving arms around all of you. Susie Cordova
Susie CordovaFt Smith, AR
There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss may the Lord and his angels wrap there wings and his hands around you and guide you and protect you and your time of grief my condolences to you and your family
Rebecca EscalanteFort Smith, AR
I truley loved this lady and I'm going to miss her so much. I am comforted to know she is home with the Lord and has no worries or problems now. For those left behind for now, I pray for God's loving comfort. Star
Star AdairTahlequah, OK
Sending my prayers up to the great man upstairs.
Sheila GarciaTahlequah, OK